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THE NICE GUY

Posted by LAZYNEWYORKER en octubre 15, 2007

OK ITS ABOUT THAT TIME THAT I HAVE TO GET SOME FEEDBACK FROM YOU PEOPLE…….THIS TIME I ASK MYSELF “DO NICE GUYS REALLY ALWAYS FINISH LAST”?

TIME AND TIME AGAIN, I OVERHEAR CONVERSATIONS WERE WOMEN TALK ABOUT HOW THEY WANT A NICE GUY THAT WILL TAKE THEM OUT AND TREAT THEM NICE…BUT ONCE THAT NICE GUY IS FOUND HE DOESNT LAST MORE THAN 3 WEEKS….I DONT KNOW BUT THIS IS WHAT FEMALES SAY WHEN ASKED “WHY AREN’T YOU GUYS 2GHTER”?

– HE WAS ALWAYS WORKING

– HE WAS BORING

– HE’S TOO SOFT

– HE WAS CALLING ME EVERYDAY

– HE WOULD WANT TO SEE ME EVERYDAY BUT NOT WANT TO GO OUT…ETC

SO THE NICE GUYS COME AND GO QUICKLY AND THE ONE WHO SHOWS UP AT YOUR DOOR AT 3AM SMELLING LIKE HENNESSY N KARATE CHOPS YOU IN THE THROAT WHEN YOU QUESTION HIM BECOMES “THE MAN AKA YOUR MAN”

I WOULDN’T PLACE MYSELF IN EITHER CATEGORY…BUT I KEEP HEARING THESE THINGS OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND IM JUST WONDERING….”DO NICE GUYS ALWAYS FINISH LAST”?

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2 comentarios to “THE NICE GUY”

  1. MrChriz said

    yes!!! that shit is true por eso alguno de utede tiene que sacar pelo en el guebo n man up n treat em like shit for a while so the can kno wat their missin…. i kno im not the first guy thats been hurt for being nice n shit so thats why im saying for those guyz that think always treatin a girl right is the way well not always it iz wen u treat good to much they say “o he’s sweet but not agressive” thats bullshit all you really wanna do is treat her write… so i say fuck it treat em nice but treat em like shit everyonce n a while to keep it steady like that they wont talk shit!!

  2. MachavelisWifey said

    HI

    LET ME SHED SOME LIGHT ON THE TOPIC AS A WOMAN, LOL….

    THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, THOSE WOMEN YOU MENTION WHO SAY “THEY JUST WANT A NICE GUY” IN REALITY DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. ITS LIKE THEY WANT A NICE GUY, BUT THEY DON’T; THEY’RE CONFUSED. LET ME EXPLAIN…

    MANY YOUNG WOMEN (IN THEIR 20’S) WANT TO DATE “BAD BOY” TYPES OR “THUGGISH TYPES” AND NOT NICE GUYS. I DON’T KNOW IF IT’S A CULTURAL OR GENERATIONAL TREND, BUT IT’S THE TRUTH; SAD BUT TRUE. I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I USED TO BE THAT WAY. I WAS A SUCKER FOR “BAD BOY TYPES”, THE ONES THAT TREAT WOMEN LIKE DIRT. AND WHY? JUST BECAUSE I USED TO THINK THEY WERE HOT, AND THEY WOULD TURN ME THE FUCK ON, LOL. BUT THATS NOT A BASIS FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP: HOT GUY + UGLY PERSONALITY = SHITTY RELATIONSHIP. THATS WHY THOSE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WENT ANYWHERE AND NEVER DEVELOPED INTO TRUE LOVE, JUST MAD LUST.

    ANYWAY ONE DAY ONE RELATIONSHIP CHANGED THAT (EVERBODY HAS “THAT ONE” RELATIONSHIP). IT CHANGED ME COMPLETELY BECAUSE IT WAS HEARTBREAKING AND AFTER IT ENDED, I WAS ABLE TO LOOK BACK AND REFLECT ON MY PAST EXPERIENCES WHERE I HAD BEEN CAUGHT UP IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH “BAD BOY TYPES”. AFTER THAT WHOLE UGLY EPISODE, I LEARNED MANY THINGS ABOUT MYSELF, BUT I LEARNED ONE MAIN IMPORTANT THING, AND THAT WAS TO LOVE ME AND APPRECIATE MYSELF FIRST, BEFORE I DID ANY OTHER MAN. NOT TO SOUND CORNY BUT ITS THE TRUTH, YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF, BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE ANYONE ELSE .

    SO, THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, MOST OF THOSE YOUNG GIRLS OUT THERE YOU ARE REFERRING TO (THAT SETTLE FOR GUYS THAT DON’T APPRECIATE THEM) STILL HAVE NOT FIGURED ONE THING OUT. THEY HAVE NOT LEARNED TO APPRECIATE, LOVE AND VALUE THEMSELVES AS WOMEN AND THAT’S THE TRUTH. THATS IS WHY THEY LET MEN DISRESPECT THEM LIKE THAT AND THAT’S WHY THEY SEEK OUT MEN LIKE THAT. IF THOSE WOMEN LOVED AND APPRECIATED THEMSELVES, WHY WOULD THEY SETTLE FOR THOSE TYPE OF MEN? THINK ABOUT IT. NO WOMAN IN HER RIGHT MIND THAT LOVES AND VALUES HERSELF WOULD EVER SETTLE FOR RECEIVING THAT TYPE OF TREATMENT, TALK ABOUT SETTLING FOR LESS.

    NOW, IF THOSE WOMEN DON’T KNOW HOW TO APPRECIATE THEMSELVES, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THEY CAN APPRECIATE AND VALUE ANOTHER PERSON IN A RELATIONSHIP? OR, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THEY WILL RECOGNIZE AND LEARN TO APPRECIATE A GOOD MAN WHEN THERES ONE IN FRONT OF HER? THEY DONT, THATS WHY THEY CHOSE TO BE WITH “BAD BOY” RATHER THAN “NICE GUY”. THEY GO FOR THE LAME ONE, BUT LIKE I SAID, THAT’S JUST THE WAY IT IS. UNTIL ONE DAY THEY FINALLY COME TO A REALIZATION OR JUST BECOME PLAIN FED UP, OR BOTH!… *SIGH*…. WE LIVE AND LEARN!

    JUST LIKE HOW I AM RAGGIN ON WOMEN ABOUT CHOSING LAME MEN THOUGH, THE SAME GOES FOR MEN. MEN SHOULDNT SEEK TO BE WITH WOMEN THAT CHOSE TO BE WITH LOSERS THAT CANT APPRECIATE THEM! “NICE GUYS” NEED TO HIGHER THEIR STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN. THEY NEED TO FIND A PARTNER THAT KNOWS HOW TO APPRECIATE THEM; ONE THAT KNOWS HOW TO VALUE HERSELF AND KNOWS HER PLACE IN THE WORLD, BECAUSE SHE IS THE ONE THAT IS GOING TO APPRECIATE “THE NICE GUY” AND SHE WILL CHOSE THE “NICE GUY” OVER “THE BAD BOY”.

    MY ADVICE TO ALL THE “NICE GUYS” OUT THERE IS TO LOOK FOR A WOMAN THAT IS EMOTIONALY MATURE AND KNOW HOW TO RESPECT YOU. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR WOMEN THAT DON’T FIT THAT DESCRIPTION THAN FORGET ABOUT IT! BE IN SEARCH OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP; WHERE ONE APPRECIATES THE OTHER JUST AS MUCH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY WHERE THERE IS MUTUAL RESPECT.

    KEEPING IT REAL, THOSE ARE MY 2 CENTS!

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